Looking for a guy to date.......? Marry
Is there anyone who is looking for a Nepali girl ??????

nepali kaanchhi,
don't u have to sleep .. what r ya doing up so late (O:

I want to thank Sweeta for giving the names of websites..:D coz.if I will old without marrying...then gotta go there...J/K

On the seriuos note, It was for my cousin who is very successful career-wise in her life. Alas, now in the midst of her life there is no one to enjoy the life with...

So girls & (GUYS) too, everything has its own time in the life. Gotta go with the flow of life...its better to look every aspects of the life than regretting in the future.

Peace,

Aneesha

Pearl,


Nice Updated info, will you response here only or if someone send you an email, will you reply it back too?

I think will satisfied most of your criteria but there is still lack of information, what kind of person you are looking for... so that it will be easy for me, whether i will be fit that description or not.

Anyway wish you good luck

Kaleketo

Pearl you are not the only one ,it is strange but many successful woman have hard time finding the right partner.
The reasons:
1]busy professional have less time to look for life partner
2]Guys are most of the time intimidated by successful women
3]The expectation for man to be is high on successful women

It is stange but fact for girls who are looking for man :It is very hard to find a decent , honest and family man ...it is very true in US most of the time ..(i am not just throwing these info out here but i read )..

Guys are willing to date and have fun but will run away most of the time when it comes to commitment.
Guys from nepalese community often go back to marry (hmm.. i wonder why??)
These info is for girls ....try looking from now :) hehheeh... hey btw i am here;);)

Pearl - I think oftentimes when u look too hard, then u tend to overlook a lot of things. I think the best thing to do is not to look and the person find u :))

and let the person find u **

Pearl,
Becareful of the ones who get lured by your credentials. They don't love you, but your credentials....and you wouldn't really want that :D

Sajhauser,
Dont you think her credentials are as much a part of her.. as the soul that lives within her?

I meant more of her background and all. Yes her credentials are part of her. But this world is not perfect. There are people out here who are so materialistic that, they could do anything for more money. I have noticed one here in sajha that fits my description. I'm just giving her a friendly warning....since she seems to be desparate to find a guy, she might not see what's lurking in the dark....

BB,
sanchi ho.. so u want someone to find you.... i am sure its working dandily hoina ta (O:
BB ko idea ta sarai khatara... daar lagyo...

sajhauser,
its all about people/person hoina ra. U r right credentials.. i.e. sometimes decent job and stability gives false impression about individuals...
ma ta.. prolly most unstable person u can ever meet hola (O:

ImI,
I will agree on ur #1.
#2 might be okey but i completely disagree on #3. its not competition hoina ra. being compatible, working together, sharing po hoina ra.. why should there be demand on any side... if there is then it is more like a business transaction/requirement rather than... being together as a family (O:

in the end.. its FAMILY BUSINESS hoina ta.. may be u r correct (O:

sajhauser,
wow.. who is that? "money lagi k garyo tesle??? " lets hear it... (O:

it looks, people other than PEARL are desperate and lonely.......

dai- okay- thanks a lot for making fun of my suggestion to Pearl. Its only fair that a gurl who sounds as deserving as Pearl should have a guy who'd sweep her off her feet.I mean - her idea of stress release is COOKING and CLEANING- hello !! If I were anything close to what she is, with a GOOD CAREER, I'd sit right at my chair and 'tick and cross' besides "name list"... ;););)

(ps. why do i think Pearl is joking BIGTIME)

BB,
Pearl might be very well joking..hehehe

but the truth is this is not joke ..good relationship is hard to find these days:(

lot of carrer orientented men and women have this problem.This is not a new story.

okay ImI and pearl, congratulations! :)

sorry about my last post pearl....you seem really serious to me now :P.

okay,
i have no idea how to look for the RIGHT partner. i don't think you have to push in hard to find the Mr. right for you coz chances are...you might end up with Mr. so so or Mr. wrong in worst case. means, there is no gurantee...

initmacy and relationships are things that develop over time..you can nurture and groom it but you have very little access to its fate. if you are really looking for marriage, then build a network and try to expand it...let as many people know about you and your requirement. i DON'T think sajha is a very good platform for this sort of serious issues though. when you speak truth, people feel that you are kidding or boasting..the credibilty factor is low...very low.

so i suggest you to let everyone whom you know personally, know about you and your requirements. try one or two matrimonial sites if you want. they DO work sometime.

the easiest and the most wise solution would be:

WAIT and SEE!!!... God is very kind, trust me!! he has created mr. right for you already..its just the matter of meeting him...he is hovering around somewhere and will come and grab you, he won't let you go! just have some patience!!!

LooTe

Loote,

Thats one of the sweetest things i've seen you write :))

ImI,

Its true, but those people make a choice. I think a person has to learn to make the choice, upto which point does your career precede over your social/romantic life? After a certain point, even if you reach the pinnacle of success, if you dont have the special person you would want to share your happiness with, then whats the point? People always pay for choices they make- always !

Azn,

hows canada treatin ya? :)

hey BB! long time no see huh Ms.so-bz !!!?!
im fine here, its very hot these days so im luvin it anyway,.. welcome back..!! we were missing you!! ofcourse loots and imu were goin crazy and started likin eachother cuz of ur absence. jk ! :)

hi azn-

I wonder why its hot out there- perhaps your presence exacerbates the heat :P What say you Hotness? :) Thanks for missing me. I had decided to take the balcony seat and enjoy the matinee show of "Sajha". ;)...And i shall resume with my balcony seats from now on...and give in my claps and "wah-wahs" once in a while. I do enjoy seeing your conversations with Loote and ImI. :)) Timi Heroine and one Hero and the other side hero (which one is which u choose)...well - enjoy your day - not long before schools starts, and we all know how its gonna be after that :((...

indian keta bhaye huncha.
if u r serious then euta indian kta cha maile cheneko. i think he is in realstate and is a US citizen. in his 30's has a house and earns pretty good money. his parents r also really cool and open minded (unlike other indians who r overly consevative). they live in usa too but not with him. he isnt the best looking guy in the world. but good frm heart. bihe garne ho bhane bhane huncha. and if u r really jocking and playing with other ppls emotions to see wht kinda response u get then i will be really pissed. cuz i m thinking this is serious.