Hi All,
US chireko aaba 11 barsha bhayo. School pani sakiyo ani kaam pani ahile decent nai cha. Aba ta umer pani 30 pugisakyo. Bichar chai yetai aaisakeko kt bihe garne thiyo but sanjok nai milena tesaile aaba Nepal tira gayera bihe garau ki bhanne socheko..

Can you guys please suggest what kind of girl should I ask for parents to look for? Profession wise and age pani. Sabai sathiharule nurse bihe garera aako chan ani malai pani tei suggest garchan..nurse bihe gareko sathi haru ko ramro bhako pani dekheko chu but aafulai nurse kt bihe garne maan nai chaina. Aru kunai profession bhako bihe garda huncha so that way uslai pani America ma aayera naya career banauna garho nahos?


Thank you sabailai!!

Dude, you are a perfect example of educated illiterate living in the US. You don't want to marry a girl, you want to do a transaction. My $0.02, work on yourself. Get a gym membership, date some girls and decide on the one that works out. Also, have some respect for other profession and women. Age is just a number, you can marry at any age.

@ krishnaleala bro,
Im not disrespecting nursing profession or any health care profession. I think I should have been more careful when I chose my words. Im not hating on nursing or any health care professions.I was only looking for suggestions if there are any other profession except nursing or health care that is relevant in US for fob.
Haha ..what makes you think I don’t workout at all lol.
I still think my question was genuine and may help other folks as well. I have no idea why some of you are so offended by my question and calling me out all the names lol.
I don’t want to brag about my dating lifestyle bro. I will leave it up to you to make judgment lol
Thanks for the input bro:).

Yo mughi Texas basi boka haru ko kura na sunena hunchha. Guys usually get 30, by the time they graduate probably do masters, get job and get green card . There are dude who try short cut path like fake marriage, asylum and some get through it some get stuck. Also another part if you came to US in 2005/6 and went to school in some state where there aren’t much Nepali chicks around , you hardly find any one to even talk in Nepali language . I use eat rice once in three months . Then you battle to get job end up in some remote or small town and you will 30 in no time when you have GC in hand. These new comer act like it was always like this because they have TPS, consultancy all over place, 100k IT jobs, and even EB3 is almost current . Based on your responses here I can feel your humble beginning and battle , and I am sure how tried you fell to get to this point .

Regarding marriage take it slow , you still have some , { I think }. If you find a girl here, get chance to go for date and fall in love , that would be best feeling and every one should try it { I think}, just don’t try to date another ghante to start with , any student with future potential in year or two is fine. If nothing came up and have to go arranged marriage route from Nepal , again don’t rush , find balance between looks, chemestry and job/education. It’s not that hard to find. Just keep in mind just because girl is from Kathmandu and has degree and looks little modern doesn’t mean anything. Girl from out of valley , who is smart, hard working and studious will eventually hit home run then insta model from Kathmandu.

IT is not bad at all, girl with engineering degree from decent college in Nepal/India with GC will make 100/150k in no time.

@Yaaku brother,
Thanks for the comforting response. I really was starting to think I made a mistake by posting this and Im the weird one lol. Finally, someone can see where Im coming from. Yeah, Opportunity were very limited back then.
Good to know females with engineering degree back home can get a decent job overhere. At this point, I was looking for my options in choosing my partner.

Thank you again and happy friday:)

bro, many of these guys criticizing u are students( losers), throughout their stay here they learned nothing but criticising other successful people, n forget not most of these losers at gas station ghante wala haru, though u r a student as well but u spent your time shaping urself but not as a gas station labor.
nothing bad about asking this question, these loorers are barking at u koz u have GC which these culprits dnt, nam suna na sala haru ko underwear, half kattu, bra, penty, itahariko gastaioon n so on..

OMG are you freaking kidding me. You Fresh Off the Boat (FOB) performancetsterr, you don't have shame to come back again with another name after you got blocked by Admin. Seriously,
before "performancetster" and now "performancetsterr", you added "r" and re-registered again and you thought no one will recognize that. You FOB.

ani dekhnu bhayo ta, gas station bhanyo ki thyakka ai pugchan, labour bhanera gali garyo bhane samjhanus yini haru ko pet ko kira maryo, labour kam garera yini haru yeti frustu chan ki k bhanam ..yeni karu ko kam din bhar kuli jasto gas station ma kam garne ani rat pare pachi saja ma aune ani jas jas ko green card cha uniharu lai sarapne ,, malai underwear urf half kattu ley message garera gas station bhanera sajha ma nalekhnu na plz bhanera message gareko ch a

tapai ley nepal ma gayera fresh keti ba garnu bhayo bhnera yini haru daha bhaka hun, yini haru ko chai k huncha bhane yo status maintain garna sareka mal, torpe student haru sanga ba garchan, yini haru ko busi at least 5 6 jana ley thotro pareko , sutaka hunchan, aba tapai ni yehi garnus bhanera yini haru chanchan.... tyo mula underwear bhanne ko swasni ta arkai room met ley sutako re, feri aafai garba sath bhandai thiyo,,, yini haru jasttai sadega galeka student keti ba garne bhaye ta tapai lay nai pailai saknu hunthiyo hola i know it tara nepal gayera fresh keti ba garne sochne bha raicha its really a good decision. since u have a gc its a wise idea to marry a nurse n bring here

@Chu chu chusester...peri ayis!! after hours chusing kaam vanda ta better nai ho sabai ko kaam. Ta lawn mower, mexico bata ayera..yaha kub naam change garera high level juna khojeko hola..tara tero awkaat dekheraai Sajha le account close gardeko hola..aru lai kaam napayera Sajha ayo vanne ta sale cycle chor chai kaha ches ni??..taile mailai msg gareko haina gali nagarnu sajha vanera..pheri aukaat ma ayis!!

@candlewood. Tension nai leneka. You are just 30!! You still have long years ahead to get settledown. Take your time don't rush. Every dog has its day. Keep working out and stay fit. Health and status matters most.
@again coming to chusester..dude you are a fraud and a sick f$$$tard!! You are a disease and should be locked. Your mindset is like a pig. You eat sh$t and talk sh$t!!

@ghogay_moro brother,
I really appreciate your kind words. I think I missed your response while replying to all the attacks I was thrown at haha.
Yeah, finished my Undergrad and went for my masters straight. Its been three years I have been working and life is all good now.

@itahariko brother,
Thanks for the your kind words as well. Yeah staying  fit is always my priority and you do the same bro.

@performancetster brother,
Thanks for your kind words as well. I have no idea what is going on with you in sajha and why some of guys are picking on you lol. Coz its been a while I haven’t visited sajha. Anyway be humble and kind like you have been to me:).

P.S:  Where are all the responses I was getting earlier? I guess they deleted it lol. I really appreciate for all of your input brothers. I will come back to this thread and update you guys if I married the girl from Nepal that my baba was talking about or I found someone overhere( which I think is 10% chance) lol.

Already everyone..Happy weekend and Happy hollidays:)))

candlewood bro, ur in a very good track, yo gasstation wala ko kura nasunnus, tapai ko awastha tapai ko padhai tapai ko legal status dekhera daha gari ra chan, yini haru ko life tps ra assylum ley dhaneko cha tespachi feri illegal.... i also think better option for u to marry a nurse from nepal.. tapai go green card dekhere yaha ya khari jahreka students girls haru ley marrige ko proposal rakhlin, iniharu lai sidai kick out garnus,,yaha ka student girls haru marriage garne item haina, thokthak samma thik cha..dherai ley chusera faleko saman nauthaunu, yesta maal haru tps a asylum lai chodi dinus.. u deserve better, a warrior bro

ani regarding some idiots criticizing me, they r not criticizing me but my success in short time, my green card, the wealth i have in over n all my personality, which these asylee cannot achieve in their life time, im quite happy that i was able to make `em jealous

Not criticizing dude..M mocking your show off. You thoughts on other peoples work and status shows ur standard. You are a fraud cycle chor who has no dignity for womens just coz u got rejected. You cried about it and had to post out here. Nepal ma cycle chor yaha lawn mower ani your success means shit to anyone here.

Btw i don't have to prove anything Sajha admin closed your accounts which shows what kinda sick mentality you got. You fobo!! You can take ur 1 inchy else where as you will be alone forever!!

Candlewood19 is the perfect example of how to kill negativity with kindness. I see you are successful than so many of these dogs barking negativity towards your simple query.I wish you good luck on finding the right companion for you. Since, you have worked so hard in your life. You deserve someone better. No rush and take time to choose the right one.

@itahariko kuli pakh mula tero TPS ko tyandro aba sakina lagyo ani.. arab khadi tira gayera kara ,

Ta muli cha chai baches sochira ches. Tero ta na tps na status nai cha. Mexico bata ako..deportation officer ko hair crack chatna tayar holas haina. Arab jane haru ta cycle choreko jasto hoina

@itahari ko tuhuro : aba arab tira bakhra charauchas tips finito homes..time mai kehi padeko bhaye ali professional kam pauthis ki, its too late..i wish u all the success for your next career in saudi.. as a gai goru gothalo ... good luck with that

Cycle chor tehtikai vanchu ma..ta po tuhuro..birsis ki k ho..hoina vane purano post her ekchoti..kati laaz paachako hau ta..name fake kaam fake aja dialogue pani chorna thalyoo..post garu tero pic yaha pani..yeti bujh ki success hunalai padai huna parcha vane chaina....ta cycle choe ko dimakh le veudaina