Hi All,
US chireko aaba 11 barsha bhayo. School pani sakiyo ani kaam pani ahile decent nai cha. Aba ta umer pani 30 pugisakyo. Bichar chai yetai aaisakeko kt bihe garne thiyo but sanjok nai milena tesaile aaba Nepal tira gayera bihe garau ki bhanne socheko..

Can you guys please suggest what kind of girl should I ask for parents to look for? Profession wise and age pani. Sabai sathiharule nurse bihe garera aako chan ani malai pani tei suggest garchan..nurse bihe gareko sathi haru ko ramro bhako pani dekheko chu but aafulai nurse kt bihe garne maan nai chaina. Aru kunai profession bhako bihe garda huncha so that way uslai pani America ma aayera naya career banauna garho nahos?


Thank you sabailai!!

Sajha ma aayera yesto question sodhne ho bhane bro le bihe nai na gare kaso hola ? Get a life ..

@sijanrana bro: It was a genuine question brother. Can you please elaborate what’s the relation between asking this question and me not having life? Im bit confused with your reply.

Thanks for your valuable input 🙏

sir namaste,
without any bias ma tapai lai jawaf dinchu hai,

hajur lai nurse professional sanga ba garna maan nai chaina bhannu bha raicha, sida uttar .. tapai mula lai nurse man naparne tapai aafu chai k ho ni america ma, 11 barsa dekhi hallera auta keti bhettaunu bhaynea raicha, aba job ramrai chha bhannu bhayo, tapai ko job tei IT ko consultant ta hola ali thai wala, tyo bhanda ramro job ta k hola, ani slalary ni 60-100k ko bich ma hola..aba tapai lai yeti kamauna 11 barsa lagyo.. nepal bata ali talented nurse ai bhane ako 6 maina ma tapako jati kamai dinche. aba aru profession ka keti ba garnu bhayo bhane ramri ta holan tara kam china MC donalds ma ghanta hanna lagaunu ko bikalpa chaina, tpali yeti lamo samaye dekhi yaha baseko lai sabai tha hola, aba nurse bhanda ramro profession bhaneko yaha doctor ho, doctor kt tapaile bahey garne sambhawana less than 0 cha, tapaiko aawasta sunda, tesaile america ma keti lai sabai bhanda ramro profession nurse nai ho tyo bhanda aru chaina, ana PN practiocner nurse ko salary ta 150 k ko harahari huncha google garera hernus, teti ta tapai ko sayad 2 barsa ko salary hola.. lastly ramri keti ba grena ani anuhar matra chatera gharma tharo bhaisi jasto rakhne ho bhane jo bahey gare ni huncha haina ali competitent professional keti afu jati wa bhanda badi kamaune sabai thok herne keti chaiye ko ho bhane nurse ko bikalpa china

11 barsa US chirera, 30 barsa ko budo bhayera.. online discussion board ma aayera.. ko sangha bihe garum bhandai suggestion mageko le 'get a life' bhaneko bro . Testo nai indecisive ho bhane bihe kina garnu .. world tour garne ni. Partner matra chayeko bhane jati pani bhetinchhan .. commitment ko jhanjhat nai bhayena. Santaan ko lagi bhane .. adopt garne ki surrogate .. ELABORATE bhayo ? Plus discussion board ko response personally lina is bewakufi

@ hem narayan chhantyal bro:
Dhanyebad for hajur ko genuine reply. I don’t make that much money brother. Im just an accountant. School sakiyepachi kaam garna thaleko ani balla ahile green card aayo( dherai nai samaye lagyo brother green card pauna).
Nothing against nurses nor ma america ma chu bhanera jun keti pani pauchu socheko ni hoina.
IT le jati kamaune bhaye ta jun kti bige gareni hunthyo ani uslai yaha liyera aayera padhauda ni hunthyo..but mero kamai le matra uslai padhauna ali garho huncha hola socheko..
Tesaile nurse or healthcare bahek aru kunai profession cha hola socheko.
Thank you for reply again!!

@sijanrana bro,
Haha..Did I really sound pathetic asking this question here bro? I guess I should really get a life lol but I was really looking for an answer if there are any other professions other than health care. Yeah, aba ta budho bhaye tesaile dherai time spend nagarum socheko gharjam garna..
Anyway thanks for the reply again.

boro, tapai ley yo prasna sodhnu kehi kharabi hoina,

A tapai accountant hunu hudo raicha, yo average job ho khasai kata ni puggina, semi professional wala, full professional ni hoina, ghante wala type ko job raicha , khair main kuro tapai sanga GC raicha tyo very good, aba tapai ko busi ni GC nai huncha jo ba gare ni , sil sobhav bhai nurse ba garnus, ali ali loan liyera nurce practicner padhaunus, loan lina nadaraunu , education la lagani kaile khera janna , at least in america, nepal haru ko bani chai , ali ali kamauna satha nepal pathaune huncha , loan lina nadarunus once ur confident ur wife pass ur done..account ko jagir ley budi lai kam nagari gharma palera rakhna pug diana i know it, anuhar ko pachi nalagnus jun keti ni 4 5 barsa pachi chaurinchan so auta talented nurse hunt garnus, tapaiko america la life settle huncha 

candlewood19, तिमि मुजी नर्स बीहे गर्दिन भन्छौ, तिमि संग नर्सहरु बीहे गर्न पनि मान्नु पर्यो। तपाई न सपाई आफै मपाई नदेउ मुजी। पहीला नर्सको प्रपोजल कुर, अनि अस्वीकार गर्न सुहाउछ। तिमि जस्तो गोरुलाडे मुख भएकोलाई कोही गतीलो केटीले मनपराउनु पर्यो नी । "बेगर्स कान्ट बी चुजर्स", ११ वर्ष अमेरिका बसेर गर्ल फ्रेन्ड पनि छैन भनेपछि तिमि मुजी काई कुते काले, पोल्दा पोल्दै उम्केको जस्तो हुनु पर्छ। तिमि मुजीलाई सहज उपाय, तिम्री आमालाई भन, उनले गाउ चार्दै, ११ वर्ष अमेरिका बसेको छोरोलाई श्रीमती चाहीयो भन्दै एउटी मुजी अभागी, तिमि भन्दा १० वर्ष जति कम, अलि च्वाक, गोठालो जादा झाडीतिर १०-१५ चोटी चीकामारी खेलीसकेको केटी भेट्टाउ छिन् त्यसलाई बहे गर।

Hahaha, takdhanadhan bro, good one.

@hem narayan chantyal bro: yeah maile ta sachikai naramrai question sodhechu ki jasto lageko ..uh tei nai garnu parla...ekjana buwa ko sathi ko chori chan re...aba yo last year nursing sakaudai chin re ..manche pani ramro nai chin( ma kale lai nasuhaune haha). Balla 22 barsha ki but ma 30 barsha puge ali sano nai lagne tesaile haha
Dhanyebad again hajurko reply ko lagi..


@takdhanadan bro: haha good one. Yeah, america chirepachi aafuko nepal bata aauda lageko rin, padhai ani aama, baba, dai, bahini, bahtiz haruko ichyha pura garda gardai aafno jawani gako thahai payenachu..
Some folks have it easy I guess like yourself and sijanrana bro. I am not assuming you guys didn’t work hard to be where you are at now. But mine didn’t go as planned..ichhya ta 27 barsha bitra sabai settle bhayera basna thiyo..but green card naauda samma k bihe garne sochera kurirako..

Is it only me who is 30 and not settled down in here? Coz I have so many friends who are in their 30s and are just settling down. 
I guess me and my friends are not good looking enough like you said :).
Thanks for your input brother:)

@halfkattu bro: haha that’s what I said.. it was really a good one lol. I was really bored in the office today but it was fun coming back to sajha after so long. But, I say it again..My question was 💯 % genuine lol. I guess Im the only naramro thopra bhako  kta in sajha and in US.

candlewood19, ब्रो तिमीलाई एउटा गुड हस्थमैथुन को जरुरत छ।
Go and shake your parrot, let your anxiety out through your bulbul.

@takdhanadhan:
Haha yeah I guess lol

मुजी ब्रो केटी को काम होईन शोभाब हेरेर बहे गर्नु पर्छ।

३०- ३० वर्षको बुडो मान्छेले पनि मुजी श्रीमती चाहीयो भनेर बिज्ञापन दिने हो? मुजी सबले तिमीलाई नमर्द सोची हाल्छ नी।

@takdhanadhan bro: yeah tyo ta ho bro but shovab matra heryo bhane uslai pani yaha aayera fast food/warehouse ma kaam garaunu parcha ani aba ta sachikai budo bhaisake tesaile uslai liyera aayera padhayera ta kahile ho kahile..
Bigyapan gareko jasto ta lagdaina brother ..just genuine question matra sodheko..
Kaam ka American kt haru ta hurukkai hunchan brother uniharulai ma namarda bhanne thaha nabhayeko hunuparcha lol..
But gharjam chai nepali sangai garum ki sochera bro..

candlewood (that nick tho lol), don't second guess - there's nothing wrong with asking a very personal question, which lot of others aren't as comfortable asking in public. some think questions pertaining to love/relationship/marriage are so personal that it is humiliating to discuss publicly.

keyboard warriors will sling all the shit at you 'cos you know, everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. some of the opinions are from people who think no end of themselves, others are from people who have had no issues as life didn't deal them a full hand - they had straight choices to make and that worked for them, and think others should do the same. yet others think it is macho and manly to sort your issues yourself when it comes to courtship and relations. each to their own, bro. just shrug the negativity off. someone who has walked in your shoes will come by and let you weigh in your options. heck - some have had the courage, fortuity and luck to be bold enough to go for whatever life throws and made it to the other end, hence the swagger. but realize, it doesn't work that way for everyone.

there will be those who judge your success by the salary. others by the size of their house and cars. there are yet others who are out there barely surviving, life almost forgets to give them a break. an accountant in the US who just started a stable job at 30 after navigating all the hardships of a student in US is quite an achievement. ask that to a fellow student who's struggling to make ends meet and you will realize its worth. those who were the right folks in the right place and had right education and development opportunities to be where you are now, kudos to you too. just know - everyone doesn't get a similar head-start in life. and don't look down on others who are trying to make their ends meet.


so those who think it is unmanly to ask personal questions, well, you have all the right to holler, but i ain't listening to the bluster. i will glean the good advise from it though.

all the sajha huff and bluster aside, to answer your question, (@candlewood or anyone in that situation) i would go with a person that would make you happier in your lifelong journey, a person who's full of life, humility, who's caring and compassionate than where she would work and how much money she would bring. someone who understands the ups and downs of the daily grind and look beyond the trees to see the forest. when shit hits the fan, this kind of person would be a good companion for next 50 or so yours you might live. if you can have all of the above and make more money, hey all the best.

otherwise, go with what socrates said: marry and if you get a good wife, you will enjoy life. else, you will become a philosopher lol.

best of luck.

यत्रा मुजी नेपाली विद्यार्थी, टी पी एससे छन्, मुजी पढे लेखेका पनि छन्। अब मुजी तिम्रो हरियो पत्ता छ भन्छौ, एउटा समाते बाजा बजाउ तिम्रो नी कल्याण उनिहरुको पनि कल्याण।

@ takdhanadhan bro:
Haha uh bro..Tei ta dherai nai chan bhanchan but aafno circle ma ta koi pani bhetidaina bro..
Nepali party ma jada ta dekhin chan but bolnai apthyaro nepali kt haru sanga..yaha ko american kt haru sanga bolna ta teti aphthyaro hudaina ..budo bhayera nai hola lol..