Dear ALL,
Issues: Both in the developed and developing country, many teenagers have problem of sexual health education in time, but due to lack of education they themselves find in their way above issues. Just imagine when u had known first information about sexual health, how and where u found it??? Is there anybody whom you have taught these things? What happened in your first love or sex with your partner?? How much you have given time to see the xxx films, how often you see the porno sites??? How often you talk these things with your friends????? How often you go to the brothels????How often you call the sex workers in your room?? Or how often you spend with your girl fren in your room???? Or even you have girl fren how many others have you sex??? What do you think, is this necessary to know or just itself it will know in time??? How often you engage in just kissing,sucking,licking, sex and sex.??? How often you sleep with your partner????Is sex is only need of Boy?? Or why not for girls.
Why not we say , girl has sex to boy rather than boy has sex to girl??? Can it be reversible.???
Many of the developing country teenagers are victims of STD and HIV………..drug addicts……crime all these …………why the main reason is lack of true love and lack of sexual health education in time.
Anyway……………I just have written some of the typical issues that are found both among developed and developing country teenagers/youth. So, this makes less sexual health education rather than promote sex style education.
Materials and methods:
English films scenes, Blue Films CD/DVD available in the market or borrow from Friend.
Internet websites of pornography, searching sexy sites from search engine google, yahoo, hotmail etc. from cybercafé or at home.
Pornography magazine, photos eg. Playboy, penthouse, private.
Direct printout from the website or photos.
Short blue films video clips and photos downloaded from the website to the mobile phones or PDA.
Adult nude , non-veg Jokes SMS or MMS.
Slides of pornography.
Sexual act story from the fren and local sexy stories books.
Results:
Most of the TEENAGE BOYs having access above materials in their teen age. They often see alone or among friends. These materials are transferred to other friends in geometric ratio. If such materials receive by a boy having Girl friend they will see, in guarantee; if they have computer or VCD or DVD or PDA or Mobile. Most of the BF and GF having sexual intercourse (result of love), if they having secret place and time (non-mens period, because girls often say I am in mens-period(puncture day) so please NO NO NO NO today). Then , the natural dumbbell is enough to the boy for masturbation’s is an addiction and like hunger. Just if you are hungry you can eat what ever you want then you satisfy your stomach. But next day or later on again if you are hungry you need food again. Likewise, today you have sex means , its not forever, next day or next time again you need it. Sex with a single partner is not enough for boys, they want new taste, often virgin girls, as a virgin hunter or lady sex killer. So, sex and hunger are two sides of coin. No one can satis with one time sex. U surely break your promise not to do sex. But just kissing,hugging and sucking is not enough for boy, so gradually he wants just sex: either or all; oral sex or vaginal sex or anal sex??anal sex is the latest practice of sex for old partners????
Most of the teen girls access these materials via boyfrens, home internet, accidentally found from the home (may be bring by brother or father). From that girlfren, she will pass to other near and dear fren.
When these teens’ get married, most of the boy are addict and crazy to see and want such materials. So they just …………at home. When they have children , accidentally if they found they will probably see. Most of the cases , the children alone capture the peering the sexual activities,styles of their parents from the windows pinhole, door keyhole. Again , if the parents have captured own sexual activities video , if accidentally find by their kids , what happen???????Can you imagine how much gallon of sperms per day spoil due to masturbation?? Is this equal or less than mens blood ?????In this modern era, many of have digital camera, or mobile in built camera or video. Many have captured such live photos/movie in their gadgets.
If you have electronic gadgets, the son brings such materials to home and in secret time, he will see it. If such things found by the sisters and aunty what happen???? Everyone is curious what is this inside????
Most of the boyfrens, if they have taken naked photos of their GF , and if their love break out the boys may blackmail or show to other frens ??
Conclusion:
So, in this era , I don’t suppose the sexual health and sexual style to be given to the students and youth.
Thanks to DVD,CD and porno books and even internet that have sensitize these teens to know in time about the sexual health and sex style education. But the draw back is, there is no information about the emergency contraceptives, infections and virginity. Last but not the least, don’t expect a pure mustard oil in the market or virgin boy/girl in your life. Just enjoy what you get, where you get and what ever it is; no need for further investigation. Anyway, do you have any idea to solve these problems??? This is based on secondary data.
If you have any experience please post in
www.sajha.com Ms. Pravina ,MD, MPH, and Ph.D. research Scholar on sexual health, UCLA.,USA
